Your sub-conscious primal coding was formed in childhood, when you absorbed the lie that being YOU wasn’t enough.
A baby has no concept of self as wrong or right, good or bad, until we come to understand that to get love, attention, what we want, we must act in a certain way. Conditioning begins. We become self-critical so we can self- monitor - so we can make sure we will always belong, always be loved and always be safe.
The minds number one job is 'SURVIVAL' so the fear of being rejected or being left feels like DEATH to the ego. It tries to avoid it at all costs. We need to stare at it for long enough for this illusion to dissolve, for the truth to emerge.
There’s no point focusing on all the symptoms and trying to manage them, as a new one will just show up, unless you are willing to release the sub-conscious beliefs that are no longer serving you.
It isn’t that you are inadequate or not good enough, or destined to fail, it’s just a ‘programme’ you inherited- a broken core belief, you did not choose.
But now you have a choice. YOU get to decide.
You don’t have to live out of the past as if it is still happening.
YOU ARE NOT IN DANGER, YOU ARE SAFE, WORTHY AND UNCONDITIONALLY LOVED!
So we come into our bodies, we acknowledge the ego wanting to keep us safe and we DECIDE!
We decide we ARE READY to STOP living out of the past.
WE CHOOSE to re-connect with TRUTH, with Love and Source
We re-programme our sub-conscious beliefs by surrendering to the truth of NOW.
From now on, You decide to live in alignment with your new chosen beliefs. Learning to live in alignment with the truth doesn't have to take long, but it does take committed practice and training. And so we begin. We begin our Spiritual growth by returning to a place of Unconditional Love.