Los Angeles Metro Area Bad Date List

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This form is used to compile information on "Bad Dates" in the LA Metro Area. This information is completely anonymous and will be made available to our community for the purpose of keeping SWers in the LA metro area safe. If you are not comfortable answering any of the following questions, you can skip them and still submit the form.

We understand that Bad Dates can be upsetting, harmful, or even traumatizing. Please take your time in completing this form and if you need to take a pause and come back to the form later, leave your email below before submitting. If you are in need of support, SWOP LA hosts bi-monthly peer support groups for current and former sex workers. Please email lexiedelaluz@protonmail.com for more information regarding dates/times and how you can join.

Thank you in advance for your contribution to SWOP LAs bad date list, and for helping keep our community safe.

Bad Date Incident Information

Please use this section to provide as much detail about the bad date as you feel comfortable, such as when it was, where it occurred, and the nature of the incident.

How did you meet the client?

Online Ad

Dating Site

Strip Club

Hotel/Casino/Bar

At a known track

Not listed

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More Info (If comfortable, please share name of establishment/street/platform/etc.)

What kind of appointment was it?

Full service

Blow job/hand job/foreplay

In-person dancing or modeling

Webcam/Online dancing or modeling

In person meeting for unspecified services (escorting)

Pro-sub

Pro-dom

Pro-Switch

Fetish Fulfillment

Not Listed

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When did this incident occur? (If unsure of the exact date please put the first of the approximate month and year)

YYYY

Which city did the bad date occur?

What occurred on this bad date?

Robbery

Client took condom/other contraception off

Harassment/Stalking

Verbal Assault

Physical Assault

Sexual Assault

They drugged me

Client was a cop

Client was a time waster/flake

Client was drunk

Client was high

Client was racist

Client was transphobic

Client otherwise had generally shitty behavior

Not listed

Please provide any additional details you feel are necessary to know about this bad date.

Bad Date Description

Please provide as much detail as you feel comfortable so that other workers may recognize and avoid this bad date.

Bad Date's name/alias

Bad Date's phone #

Bad Date's Email

Bad Date's gender

Bad Date's vehicle Info (Car Make/Model/Color)

Bad Date's Height

Bad Date's Race/Ethnicity

Any obvious physical identifiers? (scars, tattoos, etc..)

Bad Date's Body Type

Slim

Average

Athletic

Stocky

Large

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How did the Bad Date first make contact? (website or platform name, club name, street name, phone, etc..)

If the Bad Date contacted you through an Ad site or online platform/dating site, please list the site name and the Bad Date's handle.

Any additional comments/red flags to look out for?

Support

Thank you for taking the time to complete this form. If you are in need of support regarding this incident or anything else please leave your contact information below or check out our resource list on our website: https://swoplosangeles.org/resources/

We also host peer support groups for current/former workers twice a month (time and date varies). Email lexiedelaluz@protonmail.com to join!

Your Name/Alias

Your prefered contact info (email/phone/etc.)

When we contact you, may we identify ourselves as from SWOP LA?

Yes

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