Why don't I feel loved?

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About you, your dating, your relationships, & your love-life

These questions may help you start to understand your love-life.
You do not have to complete all the questions. Please complete as much or as little as your time and interest allows.

You can find out about me and my programmes here, or contact me and I will let you know how to get started:
http://www.bristolcounselling.co.uk/love-recovery
Email: shelley_treacher@hotmail.com

Shelley Treacher MA Couns Psych BACP accred

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About you: Tell me about your life right now (the details; Do you live alone? What's your job? Were you married? Do you have kids? Pets?)

What does your typical day look like?

What are your favourite parts about your life?

What interests you on social media/ what groups are you a member of?

About your lovelife: Tell me your story. What's your experience of relationships so far?

What has intimate relationship been like for you?

Describe one of your best relationship experiences

Describe one of your worst relationship experiences

When do you feel the sting of being single, or unhappy in relationship the most?

At home alone

At night

When I miss being close to someone

At weekends

At parties

In the park/ outside walking/ when I see 'happy' couples

On special occasions

When an occasion comes to an end

At certain times of the year

When we have an argument

With relatives

Other:

Are there patterns that seem to repeat for you in relationship/ dating? If yes, please describe the pattern

Tick as many as apply

I'm attracted to the wrong people

I just can't get going at all. Nobody seems interested in me

My dates are really interested at first but suddenly seem to lose interest completely after a while

I become jealous and obsessive. I just can't seem to help it.

My partners end up being very controlling

I find myself in relationship after a couple of dates, and then spend a lot of my time with my partner

I feel unable to say what i want.

I frequently feel hurt or disappointed.

I find it difficult to trust

I'm really interested at first, but lose interest soon.

I either find people physically attractive, or I like them as a person/friend. I never seem to feel both at once.

People I find attractive never seem to find me attractive, and vice versa.

I don't find many people attractive

I struggle with codependency, love addiction, or neediness

I feel hopeless about finding the right one

Other:

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Briefly, what was your childhood like? What, if any, incidents in your past, may have contributed to your patterns in relationship?

Describe your ideal relationship experience

Describe your ideal partner and relationship

Do you feel you have love in your life?

What do you appreciate about your life?

About your current support for dealing with dating and relationship: Who or what do you currently, or have you ever used, for support in this area?

What’s working for you now? What do you like about it?

About the future: How important is this for you to handle right now?

What would get better in your life if your lovelife was a non-issue?

About how to help you: Have you ever paid for a product or service to help with your dating or relationship situation?

If not, what has stopped you?

If yes, what did you like best about it?

What do you wish companies/programmes understood about you to be able to help you?

Would you pay for a programme designed to help you with your lovelife?

Yes

Maybe

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If yes, how would you like this to be taught? (Tick as many as apply)

In person in a small group

In an online group ( a group internet call)

Online videos, audios and readings; fully self guided

With community support (eg closed FB group)

1 on 1 individual support

A mix of self guided options and group support

A mix of all

Other:

If I could wave a magic wand, and your lovelife was sorted, what would your life look and feel like?

And finally! Would you like to be kept up to date with my offers, courses and writing on creating a fulfilling lovelife? * You can sign up yourself, here: https://mailchi.mp/6704904c95c6/undergroundconfidence *

Yes

No thankyou, not at this time.

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Yes please!

No thank you, not at this time

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