Where you are

The pain of disappointment and the hurt feelings you may now be experiencing can be overwhelming- including feelings of being betrayed, abandoned and abused and so deeply let down that it feels like you can never get up again (at least in this relationship).  

Additionally there is an instinct for most of us at times like this to run, to find shelter- to find comfort from the storm.

This is so understandable!  

But, if could just force yourself to not to make any decisions until these kind of feelings subside you will be so much more likely to make a decision you feel good about in the future.


The Nature of this Survey

These questions may seem awkward and somewhat leading. Do your best to stay with the survey and to trust the objective, which is this: To have an honest conversation with yourself about your decision.


Abuse and Boundaries

As you answer these questions, keep in mind that continuing in a dysfunctional and/or abusive marriage should never be an option. The nature of this survey however is to separate your emotions from your ability to make a good decision and get some perspective.