Hi, cute interesting nerdy people! Partly as a social experiment and partly as an earnest effort, I am running a public survey which I encourage you to fill out if you are potentially interested in dating me.
Some relevant information about me:
-I am a 32-year-old bisexual cis woman.
-I currently live in Toronto but will be moving to New York City in July 2025.
-I am in a non-hierarchically polyamorous marriage with my spouse/anchor partner, mb, who lives in New York City.
Info & tips for filling this out:
-Herein, you'll find about 30 questions; some are multiple-choice and the rest are writing-based. I'd estimate it'll take you 20 minutes to fill it out.
-Please try to answer the questions authentically, rather than saying what you think I want to hear.
-Not all of the questions are marked as required, but answering more is better.
Why am I doing this? Well, mostly because I've tried dating apps and have found them shallow and disappointing for the most part. I know this is kind of intense, but that's the point; part of my intention here is to filter for people who are willing and able to put effort into their connections. (Also, if we end up going on a date, I promise you can ask me any questions from this survey and I'll happily answer them! Vulnerability is a two-way street.)
I will process the responses on a rolling basis when I can, and will reach out to anyone I think is a good fit for what I'm looking for. Thanks so much!
