suspected pregnancy first?
will spoil the baby most?
will change the most diapers?
is enjoying the pregnancy?
will purchase the most things?
is more nervous about labor?
will take more photos/videos?
will sing more lullabies?
is more likely to helicopter?
will be quicker to call the pediatrician?
will be best at packing the diaper bag
can handle sleep deprivation better?
will make better breakfasts?