Healing the Sister Wound Survey

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We need your help!

We are putting together a new book about women's relationships with one another and have put together a quick survey.

We would love to feature both some inspiring and heart-wrenching stories about the ways women have hurt each other -- so leave your name and email at the bottom if you want to contribute your story.

We'll be contacting you directly in October for an interview if you add your name at the end.

Thank you for your support!

1. Have you been wounded by another woman within the past 10 years? *

Yes

2. Have you wounded another woman within the past 10 years? *

Yes

3. What was your relationship with your mother like? Select all that apply *

What relationship? I still don’t speak to my mother.

She was an alcoholic or on drugs.

She was the stereotypical perfect mother.

She favored a sibling over me.

We had a great relationship and still do.

She was judgmental.

She was depressed.

She wanted to live her unlived dreams vicariously through me.

She pushed me to be perfect.

I wanted to please my mother.

I rebelled against my mother.

Other:

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4. Did you have a blood sister growing up? *

Yes I was the youngest

Yes I was the oldest

Yes I was the middle child

No, I was the only girl with brother(s)

No, I was an only child

Other:

5. What was your relationship with your blood sister(s) like? Select all that apply *

What relationship? I still don’t speak to my sister(s).

We competed for our parents attention.

She was considered better than me by everyone. I was the ugly duckling.

I was considered the better child.

We had a great relationship and still do.

We had a good relationship but have drifted apart.

I didn't have blood sisters

Other:

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6. Were you left out or ostracized by the other little girls? *

Yes

Other:

7. Were you teased or bullied? *

Yes

Other:

8. Which age range did you experience your biggest sister wound? *

Pre-school (before 5 yrs old)

Elementary school (5 - 10 yrs old)

Middle school (11 - 13 yrs old)

High School (14 - 18 yrs old)

College

After College

Other:

9. Which of the 7 wounds feels most triggering for you today? *

Competition

Comparison

Jealousy

Cattiness (negative talk and sly remarks)

Exclusion

Contraction (dimming your light to make others feel better about themselves)

Judgment

Other:

10. Who do you compare yourself to most often?  *

A friend

An influencer on social media

A colleague

My mother

My blood or step sister

Other:

12. On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you trust women? *

Not at all, women are backstabbing bitches

I have completely healed and love all women as my sister

13. What’s your status with women’s circles? *

I’ve never attended one

I have attended circle

I have attended a Sistership Circle through the website

I lead women’s circles

I have been through Sistership Circle's training (Art of Leading Circle or HTLC)

14. Fill in the blank with the first thing that comes to you: “I judge women the most about their ______________” *

15. Fill in the blank with the first thing that comes to you: “I don't trust women because ______________” *

16. Take a moment to reflect on the most awful story where you were hurt by another girl or group of girls growing up. Go with the first memory that comes up. What emotion comes up? Where do you feel it in your body? If you could summarize your story into 2-3 sentences, what happened?

17. Did this get resolved or healed? Share in 1-3 sentences.

18. Would you be interested in being interviewed by me about this story and sharing it in the upcoming book to inspire and empower other women to heal their sister wounds? If yes, please write your name and email below so we can contact you. We can feature your name or have you remain anonymous.

Yes

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19. If you answered yes, please add your name and email address below:

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