3. RESPECT: You believe that you deserve respect and equality. You feel good about your gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, colour, culture, and abilities / disabilities. You are accepting to straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and trans people. You usually accept others who are similar to you and others who are different, and treat everyone with respect. You usually give and receive in equal balance in your life. You usually get help to heal and stand up to any inequality, oppression or discrimination you experience.