To sit in the Leadership Board Chair is a very different person than sitting in the pew. This means that some of the conversations and comments that might be appropriate as a congregant might not be appropriate for a board member to say. For example, a board member would not say anything negative about the pastor or other staff members regardless of how the board member felt personally. The board member is an advocate, encourager, supporter, and carrier of the mission and vision of the church. How would you handle a situation when one of your friends or family members who also attend church wanted you to share information, provide your opinion, or allow him/her to talk negatively about clergy or staff? *