Hi! I'm Sarah Thankam Mathews, writer, novelist, curious person. I'm working on a feature about online dating. Specifically, ways in which many people feel failed by online dating, and seem to be divesting from it—quitting the apps, trying to quit the apps, meeting people in person, or renegotiating desire around traditional romantic partnership. I'm also interested in hearing from you if you like online dating and have a positive experience with it. I am absolutely interested in hearing from you if you have never been on a dating app/plan never to be. Below are a few preliminary questions, and then depending on your responses, I may ask to speak a little bit more in depth.