Log in, click on "Relatives" in the side bar, scroll to the bottom of your match list, and report the last page number shown. No need to count the matches on any of the pages.
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How many total matches do you have at AncestryDNA?
Log in, click on "DNA" in the top bar then "DNA Matches". At the top of your match list, click the "Shared DNA" filter and report the number given for all matches.
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How many total matches do you have at 23andMe?
Log in, click on "Family & Friends" in the top menu then "View all DNA Relatives". At the top of your match list, report the total number of relatives. Note that 23andMe caps the number of matches you see, so this number may be smaller than expected.
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How many total matches do you have at MyHeritage?
Log in, hover your cursor over "DNA" in the top menu then click "DNA Matches". Report the number of total DNA matches at the top of the list.
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How many total matches do you have at FamilyTreeDNA?
Log in, hover your cursor over "myDNA" then "Family Finder" in the top menu, then click on "Matches". Report the total number of matches shown at the top right of the match list. (Please do not report the numbers of yDNA and/or mtDNA matches.)