We encourage everyone to be flexible by default unless it is an issue for them. We also support queer identities and asexual/aromantic players and characters; these orientations are acknowledged in the setting. However, the default assumption for most other characters, and for the Together Forever programme itself, is that relationships are romantic and sexual, so asexual/aromantic characters will most likely need to communicate their preferences to their matches like they would in real life. If you want to play an asexual or aromantic character, please describe it in the "Other" option, including whether you still have a gender preference for your matches. We also encourage players to have their characters be open to negotiation and if they're matched with an ace / aro character rather than rejecting them out of hand.

We'd especially like to know what type of play are you after when it comes to romance, and what you would like to avoid. Star-crossed lovers, unreciprocated crush on someone, being stuck with a partner you hate, being too picky, being too desperate? Everyone will have several relationships, so you'll get a mix of things, but what kind of relationship would be your play priority? Note: while we'll do our best to provide you with the desired experience (e.g. a happy ending), we can't guarantee it, since the larp is largely unscripted and determined by the players.

Note: while the larp is supposed to have psychologically realistic characters and to be quite emotional, it's not intended as "misery porn". There will be no sexual abuse (or torture -- it's not that kind of dystopia!) in the character backgrounds, and any other heavy themes are opt-in. These might include: domestic abuse, bullying, harassment, bereavement, mental or physical illness, alcohol or drug abuse, religion. If you list any of these or other themes here, we will not put them in your character sheet. You can also request here not to have them in any of your scripted relationships.

Please let us know here if you're new to larping.