IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT IS TRUE, ONLY WHAT YOU BELIEVE TO BE TRUE!
YOUR BELIEFS WERE CONDITIONED DURING YOUR FORMATIVE YEARS AND REINFORCED THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE VIA THE AUTOMATIC FEEDBACK LOOP.
Conditioning leads to overgeneralization which means we attach something negative to something positive and end up with crossed wires- we're having a negative response to a positive stimuli.
For example, we could have SUCCESS attached to FAILURE:
if I am successful, people won’t like me, they will try to bring me down, I will make others uncomfortable, i will alienate my family, people will think I'm cocky, I will get rejected (AND DIE SCREAMS YOUR INNER CHILD) and therefore I can’t be successful… then you wonder why you DON’T FEEL SUCCESSFUL!
If we have a negative belief around something positive, it doesn’t matter how much we consciously strive for it, we are literally pushing it away! Time to shine a light on what is really holding us back.
If you have got something negative connected with a positive, then you have got it twisted!! It is a protective mechanism that isn't serving you.
These beliefs about ourselves and the world run silently in the background filtering every choice, behaviour, interaction and experience we have.
So we need to get crystal clear about the destructive beliefs we have.
Filling in your current MINDPRINT and then re-writing this to create YOUR NEW MINDPRINT is the first step to cultivating your chosen beliefs.
You get to write yourself a NEW MIND PRINT from UNCONDITIONAL LOVE! It is time to uncross those wires and choose new beliefs.
You will know by the end of this worksheet where you want all your attention and energy to go!